Your Burger King relations

I require and stick with relations that work. It is not about all my way or their way but about our way. Relations have to constantly adjust and evolve.

Being married showed me how a loving and caring relation should work. Where people work to be together, make effort to be and see each other as well as overcome the rough times. We talked about what was going on with each other openly. A genuine desire and lust for each other. At the same time we had our independent times and adventures. We balanced and fully invested in a True Relationship with each other.

Modern day dating...

Well it is a lot of bullshit apparently.

First having a relation is based on being around each other and communicating only when things are good or they want to say something that is bothering them.

It is the ability to look like and claim that you want something meaningful, permanent and committed while keeping your distance, defenses and making sure that it is disposable.

Apparently relations have become a matter of standoffish posturing and hoping the other person decides to be fully vulnerable while they sit back comfortable in their distance and non investment.

From dating those that want to change you to those that are so mentally fucked up that they just want to be a brat and challenge you about everything. They have no clue about having a relationship.

So what do you do?

You choose to treat them how they have asked and want to be treated as. A disposable, distant facsimile of a relationship.

Or you let them find someone else and have their fake relationship with.