Relations, Relationships, Situationships and Me

From events lasting over a lifetime or two combined with the events over the last 2 years, specifically the last year I have had plenty to delve deep into thought about.

My preference is a fully open, loving, caring, supportive and available relationship. I know, I know that is antiquated and a thing of a long distance past. But hey that is the best thing there ever was for me. This is where a woman and I are actually close. There is no defensive posturing. We love, care, disagree and remain who, what and how we are. That is what a relationship is supposed to be to me.

My experiences have led me to be able to diagnosis and see what would work out and be best for me in a woman. That does not take into account that the woman has to be strong enough and able to see past defenses, her past and hang ups to see what I see. Nor does it mean that they will ever agree. You ask why do I do my analysis and disclose my intentions? Great question. I do that because I am sure and confident. Along with it gives a woman the information of what I want, see and intend. As i have seen with red that makes many scared and they decide to put up all their defenses. Oh well, that is their choice and if they choose to disengage I will look and no longer remember their name. If they can appreciate and understand then they can end up like my wife did. In a deep, deep relationship that will be there when you are standing tall, you fall or just want to rest a while.

The key to relations are acceptance and williingness to actually be in a relation and work through it no matter what. These things have died for the most part. At least about 98%. I have had the pleasure of learning how disposable relations are from when I was married to now. If everything is not the way that a female needs them to be so she can be comfortable and happy then they will make sure that every defense is up and that no one will ever have any meaning to her except for temporary ones.

So situationships were born a long time ago. It took me a while to understand and realize that this was how things were done with females now. But I caught on and I decide if I am bored and want to be bothered in these situations then disposable it is. I may not be a joiner but I can allow it to entertain me.

I believe in and give love. That thing that everyone is so afraid of. I give fully and freely to them. And that shit scares females to death because feelings, love or anything like that is like the plague to them. Fearful of rejection and all that shit. I make my move regardless of if they are ready or not. If I don't be decisive and go after what I want then I deserve to be miserable like others. If I let you in my circle of trust then you can get love until you decide that you do not want it through action, thoughts and words. Love means actually wanting to and pleasing your partner or partners. it is leaving behind your selfishness and being there for each other making each other happy. These principles are like terrorism to females now.

i wish that females would stop being gripping in fear and doubt of love, emotion and expression.

I will always love relationships and love. I will always see them as the best thing possible when all want to participate. I also see and understand that bar is not reachable by the super majority. I stand upon my desire and needs. But I also understand what I am in the middle of on this planet.

So everything and everyone in the places that they want and are comfortable at. This is where they want to be and stay at happily. And i am going to say ok and let them be where they want to be. But i will not give them the treasure when they have decided to have a serf attitude and desire.

The female behind the curtain has been exposed and she is a fearful little bitch and will make sure no matter what everything must be her way in order for things to seem to be right.

I will never give up on love and relationships. These things will always be a part of me. I know that situation is a rare one though and I act appropriately.

Thankfully I have learned, observed and experienced.

Is what it is!