Triggers and Landminds

You saw the title and you are thinking about combat missions.

In a way I am talking about combat missions. Not with guns, grenades and missiles

but with me and females.

Everyone has had experiences previous to meeting and being with someone. Even I, the hatched one. And from those times we have things like baggage, scars, happiness, understanding and learning to name a few things.

The key for me when it comes to triggers and landminds has been to first avoid setting them off, understand and then dispose of them. The problem with this is that it only works if the female providing the landminds and is being triggered is cooperative.

These two things seem to be hallmarks of those i date, have interest in and all. But then again it just maybe everyone simply.

The treehugger that was let go had triggers and landminds stacked on top of each other to the ceiling at all times. Everything triggered her and she would set some bomb off every millimeter. Hell she was trying to tell me that the eye patch chick was going to take me so stay away from her. All that and that drama and mess with whoever the dom was previously and all that.

With red and bgp I realize that it is there as well. And i hate having to have the landminds blow up in my face. Especially when they have not said anything about it before hand. Just an explosion and deal with it basically.

it works so much easier to just have dialogue about the things that trigger you. Especially when you get triggered than to have an explosion based off your trigger.

Because of love, understanding and seeing past all of this shit is why I still walk through the mindfields. Why I continue to get attacked and blown up. Because on the other side is the promised land and it can be worth it all if they want it to be.