That Trust Thing

Trust is a very valuable and prized commodity. I give out very little of it but when I do I expect it upheld.

That doesn't only mean don't lie, cheat and stuff like that. But also don't try to change me or tell me how I need to do this or that. You haven't earned the right to fix your lips to form any of those sentences. Let alone actually let it come out your mouth.

In both vanilla and D/s there is a high risk for me as a man because females can be flakey, damaged, up to no good and more. So, each interaction has to be evaluated carefully. No need to get set up and sent to prison because of a female's issues.

They are there with that "trust me" mentality but that doesn't mean they will give one atom of trust to you. And I do not trust them. I trust them to whine, carry on to get their way and be as selfish as possible. And majority prove that formula nicely.

So with each sentence, text, call, flogging and scene there is their perpensity to equate something to their horrible past or flashback and try to compare then to now. And I am at risk. And I like myself so I am not going to spend time in a cage because a female's issues.

So I take heed and watch carefully.

Some chances can be taken. Some chances can blow up in your face.

Regardless you must be Vigilant!!