Oh Yeah, Your Submission

Females can submit in many ways and accept submission in many ways.

As the phrase says, "it's a slippery slope."

Obviously it is not an easy thing to just up and do. It requires a lot of trust which goes against their base nature. The fear and everything of letting it all go is very prominent. Letting go of that precious and detrimental control that they have built up inside their supermax prison is paramount.

But the key to submission is their ability and willingness to submit and trust in someone other than themselves and whoever they deem worthy. That is the huge elephant in the room they have to get around. And without that step there really is no submission. Because their desire, actions and thoughts will always be there ready and able to combat you and their submission at every turn.

I have seen and heard of some great dynamics. Independent, strong females that have allowed themselves to submit. To release the reigns to enjoy, learn and create better things. It is an outstanding thing to be a part of and to witness.

I enjoy the submission that I am given. It takes a lot to do and handle. And for them to understand that this journey is one of growth, enjoyment, adventure and learning. For all involved.

I have heard the comments about men Dominants are not about anything but having submissives serve them. That is part and not the whole. And I have found it interesting that the female doms and dommes have said these things. Basically more fodder for the cannons.

For me, I emphasize and maintain attention to growth and everything with them. It is about the things they need to do to advance in health, career, enjoyment an etc. So it is not all selfish. And yes I do like to be served and attended to. it is a wonderful feeling and their actions make me proud. Plus they like when I am happy, or rarely smile and give praise. They are open and available to the D/s dynamic.

Everything is not sugar and spice. An everything is not sour grapes and vinegar. The ebb and flow of life is what you ride. And you ride it as best as you can. From moment to moment.