What's the Point?

Giving

Trying

Direct

What's the point?

When you take the first step. Speak and show your intentions completely. But still there is this veil of deceit and secrecy. No, it is not fear I am told. But some form of fear. i guess they got gassed by the Scarecrow or something.

Simple...I love you. It means the world to me to express that to someone. Because I don't say or take it lightly. I stand by that. Even when people ask about have I been in love and I explain to them the difference between my level of in love and theirs. Astounding.

I can treat you like a girlfriend. Give you those warm fuzzy feelings and all. But it is what it is.

Asked about if I had or believed in long term relationships. Yes, I do. Females don't want or believe in them it seems though. When you have to fight with them about them being a dynamo, how you need and want them plus the rest of the story. it is like falling in an active volcano.

I have given my heart, blood and soul. I no longer allow feelings to be there or unfold though. Because it is pointless to be there ready and able. With everythin transparently available only to hear that they once again will not be able to accept what we have.

It was said this morning. It is like I hate females. Like I don't want a long term relationship. That I don't want love, emotions or feelings.

Truth is look around you right now. Hell I look at the trend of love and feelings are a farce daily in my existence. Females have made up their own operating systems for these things and they are coded exclusively to themselves and time bombs.

What I do:

I tell them how I feel and what I want

Ask them what they want and how they feel

Keeping asking and checking with them about the relationship and role

Understand, communicate, accept and repeat.

Relationships take work. But they are so afraid of their feelings being hurt that they won't work on any reltions.

Society has made relations a ClusterFuck!!