Dominant...the Alpha

True I have been this naturally for my life. Through no effort at all I have been using dominant traits in and out of the vanilla world. I just recently decided to learn and develop being a Dominant though. Understanding I had a lot to learn but learning is the basis of being the Dom that I am.

Now everyone does things completely differently. Whether it is about old school vs new school lifestyle doctrine. Or the simple fact that those things do not work for the individuals.

It is about the relationship for me. That is the camp that I am in. There are a number of divides in this area. Whether the relationship can have an aspect of dating or emotional content. Or the relationship of pure hierarchy and the s type is property. I have been wanting to intwine the two. Having a relationship of D/s as well as romantic. I have had to rethink that lately. Due to female mentality and the quagmire that is their brain. The possibility is dauntingly in the red part of the spectrum. Being property and merely a toy to service me seems to be the best thing for them to be. It seems that they are able to handle and comprehend that a lot more.

I am not a collector of s types. I have had interest and been interested in a select few. None of them have been fruitful. From basic inablitly to understand to years of messed up mentality. The list has been diverse to say the least. It has reinforced me being picky about who I bother with and what they bring and their qualifications.

From observations I see why most see this life as merely a way to play. It makes it a lot easier on individuals and fits who they are. I look forward to playing. But I realize the ultimate in playing won't occur until there is someone or someones that are that level. Until then I will play to get some release.

I have to say this last year has truly been one of eye opening enlightenment, experiences and throught provoking.