Calamities and Consideration

Sine diving into becoming a better me. A better Dominant I have had to learn along the way.

Part of that learning is seeing the results of those that claim they are interested in you. From slave to submissive it has been pretty much the same thing.

They start out claiming they want this relationship with me. That they are ready. I ask questions and give them things to do and read. To assess their learning and comprehension abilities.

I always advocate being, knowing and understanding yourself, communication and focus. Regardless, these things are a foundation of having a relationship. Core principles to start from a base of strength.

As I was told it is a matter of trust for s types that needs to be gained and maintained. But you can't get that if you have to go to war with the s type to get them to grow to the point where they can stop being scared fo themselves.

Since last year I have had the experience of both slaves and submissives to be confined by their mental instability and inability to be themselves. That brick wall they put up against themselves is an internal problem. One that a Dominant cannot seal team six style gain entry on their own.

So I am very happy about vetting and consideration. Because it helps weed out the fakes, liars and beyond damaged ones from the ones that are ready to be who they are and meant to be.